Couples Counseling
Your Relationship Can Be Saved
There is a deep feeling of disconnect between you.
It’s as if you were two strangers sharing a home…
You feel like you don't know each other anymore, and this increases if your partnership has evolved to parenthood.
You feel hurt, confused, and alone.
You often think:
"My partner doesn't care anymore."
"They don’t listen."
"Why do they shut me out?"
These questions burn through your mind constantly, and you find the gap between you growing every day, every week and every month.
Ultimately, your marriage and family are at stake if you don't address this disconnect between you too. This is the person you love, your partner.
The good news is that real lasting change is possible in your relationship.
As a trained Marriage and Family Therapist, I am here to tell you that your relationship can transform for the better, so you can enjoy being with one another again.
What Causes The Disconnect?
Exact causes of disconnection can vary, but usually results initially from a communication breakdown within the dynamics of the couple relationship.
For example Communication breakdown between parents is common, with life revolving around children's activities and responsibilities instead of feeding their intimacy and connection.
Another big reason is that as we grow, we can inherit ineffective relationship patterns from our family and unconsciously project those onto our partners.
Partners can then repeat this mirroring behavior between each other.
You end up in conflict because that’s what you’ve learned to do, knowingly or unknowingly!
How Couples Counseling Can Break the Cycle & Bring You Back Together
Through my experience helping couples reignite their love, compassion, and empathy for one another, there are a few key steps to creating real change.
As your guide, I will show you how to
Be vulnerable and open with one another
Set aside judgment
Commit to a long-term shared outcome
This means listening with compassion without getting defensive and attacking the other.
As your guide, I can help you to build a truly solid foundation in your relationship, so you overcome the negative habits of the past.
After therapy, the couples I work with report feeling
✓ Enhanced connection
✓ Improved communication
✓ Increased emotional & physical intimacy
Greater understanding of each other
✓ Strengthened foundation for navigating challenges
They find a lightness in their relationship that wasn’t there before. An ability to be with one another without the simmering disconnect.
When you develop new communication strategies and work through personal issues, you can revitalize the emotional and physical intimacy that you’ve been missing.
Taking Your First Step with a Marriage & Family Therapist
As a trained Marriage and Family Therapist with over 10 years of experience in couples counseling, I focus on what matters for lasting change.
During my sessions, we don't get caught up in the details of the problem. Instead, I take a present and future-focused approach to help my clients build the outcome they want for their relationship.
Taking the first step towards improving your relationship can be challenging, but the result is worth it.
After everything you've been through together, you owe it to yourselves to have a chance at happiness and to be there for your family.
If you're looking for a place to start to reignite your relationship, I'd love to help.
Please get in touch with me by clicking below, and I look forward to speaking with you soon.
This is your time to Heal your Relationship.
Reach out below to get started.